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mitchiecruz
06/19/08, 05:58 PM
What would you do if your boyfriend (soon to be hubby), got someone (woman, of course) pregnant? :yayks:
note: you already asked him why and he said it's an accident and he doesn't love and is not willing to marry the girl.
racz_jay25
06/19/08, 06:02 PM
What would you do if your boyfriend (soon to be hubby), got someone (woman, of course) pregnant? :yayks:
note: you already asked him why and he said it's an accident and he doesn't love and is not willing to marry the girl.
I'll tell him
"You could have thought that before you impregnate her!" then I'll walk away. I'll also wish him luck..
I won't waste my time for him. I'll find someone else.
Good answer, racz!
mitchiecruz, my advice is delete the "soon to be hubby." He's not worth your time (and love). You deserve someone better! This is where I won't apply the Forgive-&-forget principle.
trailblazerstravelntours
06/19/08, 10:23 PM
What would you do if your boyfriend (soon to be hubby), got someone (woman, of course) pregnant? :yayks:
note: you already asked him why and he said it's an accident and he doesn't love and is not willing to marry the girl.
Ugh! That sucks! First, I'd punch him in the nose and then hurl him my litany of Shakespearean invectives. Then order him to marry the poor girl, for goodness sakes! If he tries to explain, I'll tell him to just check out Taylor Swift (http://english-coffee.com/showthread.php?t=3005&highlight=Taylor+Swift) in EC. :lol:
racz_jay25
06/19/08, 10:50 PM
I dunno why some guys don't think of the consequences before doing such things. Hmp!
They remind me of my boyfriend, boyfriend and boyfriend. They're all the same! haha.
ctivnan
06/19/08, 11:01 PM
What would you do if your boyfriend (soon to be hubby), got someone (woman, of course) pregnant? :yayks:
note: you already asked him why and he said it's an accident and he doesn't love and is not willing to marry the girl.
Oh dear... this one's tough Mitch! Let me see...
Having someone pregnant is such a big responsibility, you know. And I don't think that it should be a reason to marry. I just feel bad for the other girl because it is really difficult to be in such a situation, and I also kinda feel for the baby.
I would really think a hundred times if I wanna tie the knot with this guy. I am not really for irresponsible ones and I think that his responsibility for the kid may also affect our relationship in the future because he has to think about support and all. He doesn't have the kid just yet, so it's not easy to say how he's going to be once the kid's around.
Bottom line, Mitch, I think I would break off the engagement with him. :bomb:
q_sharon
06/19/08, 11:25 PM
Ugh! That sucks! First, I'd punch him in the nose and then hurl him my litany of Shakespearean invectives. Then order him to marry the poor girl, for goodness sakes! If he tries to explain, I'll tell him to just check out Taylor Swift (http://english-coffee.com/showthread.php?t=3005&highlight=Taylor+Swift) in EC. :lol:
tough, huh! :lol:
q_sharon
06/19/08, 11:27 PM
Ugh! That sucks! First, I'd punch him in the nose and then hurl him my litany of Shakespearean invectives. Then order him to marry the poor girl, for goodness sakes! If he tries to explain, I'll tell him to just check out Taylor Swift (http://english-coffee.com/showthread.php?t=3005&highlight=Taylor+Swift) in EC. :lol:
go, go, go, atta girl.!!:happy0141::happy0141:
q_sharon
06/19/08, 11:28 PM
Oh dear... this one's tough Mitch! Let me see...
Having someone pregnant is such a big responsibility, you know. And I don't think that it should be a reason to marry. I just feel bad for the other girl because it is really difficult to be in such a situation, and I also kinda feel for the baby.
I would really think a hundred times if I wanna tie the knot with this guy. I am not really for irresponsible ones and I think that his responsibility for the kid may also affect our relationship in the future because he has to think about support and all. He doesn't have the kid just yet, so it's not easy to say how he's going to be once the kid's around.
Bottom line, Mitch, I think I would break off the engagement with him. :bomb:
good thought.:wave:
q_sharon
06/19/08, 11:29 PM
I dunno why some guys don't think of the consequences before doing such things. Hmp!
They remind me of my boyfriend, boyfriend and boyfriend. They're all the same! haha.
the right man would come along, don't worry.:animal-bear:
how are you, btw?
racz_jay25
06/19/08, 11:29 PM
Ugh! That sucks! First, I'd punch him in the nose and then hurl him my litany of Shakespearean invectives. Then order him to marry the poor girl, for goodness sakes! If he tries to explain, I'll tell him to just check out Taylor Swift (http://english-coffee.com/showthread.php?t=3005&highlight=Taylor+Swift) in EC. :lol:
haha! That's a good one trail! You got my attention in the lyrics of that song. I didn't read it before.
q_sharon
06/19/08, 11:30 PM
Good answer, racz!
mitchiecruz, my advice is delete the "soon to be hubby." He's not worth your time (and love). You deserve someone better! This is where I won't apply the Forgive-&-forget principle.
or exit .. program not responding ???:superhappy:
that's the spirit. think much ahead !!:DANCER::DANCER:
racz_jay25
06/19/08, 11:36 PM
the right man would come along, don't worry.:animal-bear:
how are you, btw?
I hope they come before it's too late. :lol:
I feel better now. I'm coughing for the past days. (Please don't answer me here. We're off-topic. Let's continue our conversation in the open message board. )
mitchiecruz
06/20/08, 09:24 AM
thanks for all the advice...
ayame5987vhi
06/20/08, 10:31 AM
he can't say it was an accident! he knew what he did, he was aware of what he was doing during that moment! he should face the consequences of his actions! i agree with ctivnan about the marriage thing, they are both not ready, but the guy should at least be a man and provide the needs of the girl and the child. as for you mitchie, he's not a loss! there are so many good guys out there! and everything happens for a reason, maybe God didn't want you to be with him after all, so he can't hurt you further.. look at the positive side ^_^
hmmmm... i'm most likely to go some place away from his pathetic ass. hahahaha I just dont know if I can even be human to talk to him at all. hahahaha
pinoypower
07/14/08, 06:12 PM
Order! Order in the forum. I can understand your feelings and empathy with your fellow woman but let's think clearly and view things rationally.
May I ask you what will be your advice if the situation is reversed. That is what will you do if you find out that your wife to be is impregnated by another man? This is only a hypothetical question and it didn't happen to me although it had happened to many men since time immemorial.
purpleybutterfly
07/21/08, 04:17 AM
What would you do if your boyfriend (soon to be hubby), got someone (woman, of course) pregnant? :yayks:
note: you already asked him why and he said it's an accident and he doesn't love and is not willing to marry the girl.
there's no such thing as accident, why would he do it with some other woman anyway when you and him are set to be married??? there's no ifs and buts on this one... you leave him... PERIOD!! hehehe! sorry i felt so strongly about this but this is exactly why me and my ex-bf broke up, although he's not my fiancé but just the same, the weight of what he did is just too much to even consider any forgiveness. if he was able to cheat on you now, how much harder will it be for him to do it when you are married??? so yeah, ditch the guy and the plans... run away as fast as you can... while you can. :)
purpleybutterfly
07/21/08, 04:29 AM
Order! Order in the forum. I can understand your feelings and empathy with your fellow woman but let's think clearly and view things rationally.
May I ask you what will be your advice if the situation is reversed. That is what will you do if you find out that your wife to be is impregnated by another man? This is only a hypothetical question and it didn't happen to me although it had happened to many men since time immemorial.
simple...if I'm the future husband, I will think now why would my future wife did something like this to me?? I will probably be thinking that i may not be the right one for her, if she was able to cheat on me especially with our plans to be married soon. I may have done something wrong along the way but that's why couples talk... but cheating is never an option... I will probably let her go and make her decisions but it will have to be minus me. I will always have that negative thing in my head about her and from then on, my mind towards her will be tarnished. no matter how she tries and makes up for it... nothing can justify that, it's simply one of the worst thing a partner can do to their other half, forgiveness probably can be given.... in time but the forgetting part is what will be a very impossible thing to do after that.
ctivnan
07/21/08, 08:37 AM
Order! Order in the forum. I can understand your feelings and empathy with your fellow woman but let's think clearly and view things rationally.
May I ask you what will be your advice if the situation is reversed. That is what will you do if you find out that your wife to be is impregnated by another man? This is only a hypothetical question and it didn't happen to me although it had happened to many men since time immemorial.
You've got a good point there, Pinoypower! :thatsit:
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