-- letting Go --

[superv_az]

--- hey guys.. just wanted to share a little thoughts about love...
Hope you can share some opinion about this one. ---:character:

>>>sometimes it's better to let go of the person you truly love than trying to let him be a part of your life.....
it hurts when you love deeply but their are simply no chance for him to reciprocate that love.How can you simply be happy when everything he's doing to you are just kinda being kind. Silly huh! but reality hurts.. oh men its so painful. Is this the love thing everybody love to talk about? am i stupid or pathethic...
i can't let him go, i love him so much.But come to think of it, perhaps im just afraid of being left behind and being alone. I simply don't understand why it is so hard and painful to be inlove .. If this is what love means you must be kidding me.. <<<
:waah: :wrrrrr:

[purpleybutterfly]

>>>sometimes it's better to let go of the person you truly love than trying to let him be a part of your life..... it hurts when you love deeply but their are simply no chance for him to reciprocate that love.


it will hurt you more if you stay in that relationship knowing he doesn't love you back or not the same way you love him anyway.


How can you simply be happy when everything he's doing to you are just kinda being kind. Silly huh! but reality hurts.. oh men its so painful. Is this the love thing everybody love to talk about? am i stupid or pathethic...

he's not being kind to you at all because if he truly is kind to you, he wouldn't let you go on loving him, knowing in his mind and heart that he cannot love you back the way you want him to love you. you are not stupid nor pathetic, you just happen to fall for someone and unlucky enough to have that feeling unreciprocated, it happened to the best of us... but in time it will fade and cure itself. Just don't dwell on that pain. Live and move on... that's the best thing to do, to move forward after something like this. maybe it will be hard at the start but before you know it, you will just be laughing over this.


i can't let him go, i love him so much.But come to think of it, perhaps im just afraid of being left behind and being alone. I simply don't understand why it is so hard and painful to be in love .. If this is what love means you must be kidding me.. <<<

That's our common mistake with an unrequited love, you make your mind think "YOU CAN'T LET HIM GO" that "YOU LOVE HIM SO MUCH", that is not the point at all. It's how you are preparing your mind for the inevitable loss and pain, we sometimes are a masochist, we are hurting but what we do is make ourselves hurt more by thinking we are lost without him or we can't live without him. But you know what, the only reason it's hard to let go is because your ego was stomped on and it was you who was left behind and your confidence was sooo low thinking what is it you haven't got that you cannot make him love you back?? you try and put the blame onto yourself which makes the pain more unbearable.

let me tell you this, the right man will come along when your time to meet him has come... you don't push yourself on love, you wait, you life goes on and along the way, there will be that man for you. I was like this that's why i can sort of relate, i was pushy with love too, been "in love" to how many men, that isn't the right one for me at all, then one day i stopped searching and i just enjoyed my life, then without me realizing it, I found him and I am now married to my right man. :)

i don't know if you agree with me, but that's my take on this situation. :) i hope i sort of help you in some ways with my lengthy opinions. hehehe!

[superv_az]

-- hi there purpleybutterfly. thanks for all the thoughts that you've shared.. have a nice day!!! --

[tcha]

I was still in high school when I read this phrase- LOVE IS REALLY LETTING GO!!!
I followed this phrase a lot of times- I let love go! ( it hutrs but worth it! )

[Lynne]

well... by any means love really HURTS and that is the truth we all know suffered a lot from us. God loves us but he always feel hurt about loving us. When we love someone, we definitely will feel the hurt because we have feelings over that person. It is true. I would rather love and feel hurt than never experience love and being loved at all, in my whole life!

[tcha]

well... by any means love really HURTS and that is the truth we all know suffered a lot from us. God loves us but he always feel hurt about loving us. When we love someone, we definitely will feel the hurt because we have feelings over that person. It is true. I would rather love and feel hurt than never experience love and being loved at all, in my whole life!

Hi there, am also an ESL teacher, hope we can be friends! Have a nice day!:thatsit:

[Lynne]

Hi there, am also an ESL teacher, hope we can be friends! Have a nice day!:thatsit:
Hello~ yeah right. Sure,no problem with that:peace:. I am also teaching Korean language. Most of my students are Koreans. I used to work in South Korea before. Do you have msn, skype or yahoo account? please add me lynne_osias@yaho.com, Lynne_Osias@hotmail.com, lynne7578@skype.com Are you working in a company or do you work on your own? Am still looking for a call center position at the moment as my ESL/Korean lessons are just one of my part time jobs. Tell me something about yourself. Take care!:halo:

[tcha]

Hello~ yeah right. Sure,no problem with that:peace:. I am also teaching Korean language. Most of my students are Koreans. I used to work in South Korea before. Do you have msn, skype or yahoo account? please add me lynne_osias@yaho.com, Lynne_Osias@hotmail.com, lynne7578@skype.com Are you working in a company or do you work on your own? Am still looking for a call center position at the moment as my ESL/Korean lessons are just one of my part time jobs. Tell me something about yourself. Take care!:halo:

Hi! I added you in my yahoo and skype... mine is carrie_macabante@yahoo.com
skype- teacher_carrie
I am working in an office right now, but were not hiring now, I will try to ask my friends for other on line jobs. Where do you live? I am always on line in yahoo from 5 AM to 2 PM- we can chat if you want!

Have a nice day, friend!:FLOWER: